Confirmation Preparation for Teens

If you are beyond high school age but would like to receive the
Sacrament of Confirmation, please visit our RCIA page.

PROGRAM GOAL

The goal of the St. Mary Church Confirmation program is to challenge each candidate to be a witness for Christ and His Church and to determine if they are ready to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation. The Program Goal is achieved through catechesis (instruction in the Faith), Evangeization, service, and community building activities.


ELIGIBILITY

The St. Mary Confirmation program is open to teens that will be between the ages of fifteen and nineteen at the time of reception (March). A certificate of Baptism must be provided at the beginning of the program to take part in the preparation. Teens should also have been involved in formal religious training for the previous year and also the current year.


PREPARATION

Preparation for the Sacrament of Confirmation consists of the following stages.

1. Parent Information Meeting - This meeting is for parents and teens that may have unanswered questions about the process. It is not a required meeting.
2. First Interview for Candidate with Coordinator - Candidates should call the Confirmation Coordinator at the appropriate time to arrange this initial visit.
3. Candidate Kick-off Meeting - This is the first formal gathering of the Candidates for Confirmation.
4. Worship - Candidates are expected to attend weekly Sunday Eucharist and Holy Days of Obligation. If this expectation is not being met, confirmation should be delayed. Candidates are expected to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation, especially during Advent and Lenten seasons. Candidates are expected to participate in a retreat experience in the last year - this provides an opportunity to reflect on their relationship with God, self, and others.
5. Catechesis - This consists of four Days of Renewal on certain Saturdays from 9:00 AM to 12:00 Noon. (Includes snacks.) The sponsors are welcome to participate in each renewal day. Please see the general attendance policy.
6. Sponsors - Sponsors must be fully practicing Catholics, have received the Sacraments of Baptism, Confirmation, and First Communion, and be at least 16 years of age. Parents cannot sponsor their own children. Sponsors not registered at this parish must supply us with a sponsor certificate signed by their pastor of their parish.
Possible sponsors under the age of 19 must meet with the coordinator prior to acceptance as a sponsor for the program.
7. Service - Each candidate is asked to follow the teachings of Jesus and willingly give 20 hours of service. Opportunities will be presented for large-group, all-day projects and several small opportunities of the Candidates choosing. Candidates can receive "credit" for an out of parish service project of no more than ten (10) hours with a completed and submitted form from an authorized representative of the organization of service. In-parish service should be a minimum of ten (10) hours. A log of service is due 2 weeks before Confirmation along with an evaluation of one service activity.
8. Final Interview - This will include a meeting with the Confirmation Coordinator and a questionnaire to be returned no later than one month before Confirmation (includes the picking of a Confirmation name).
9. Request for Confirmation - This letter to Fr. Anderson requesting confirmation should be turned in by the appropriate time.
10. Rehearsal Day - This is the final formal gathering of Candidates before the Celebration of Confirmation. This provides a time to prepare to receive the sacrament and practice walking through the ceremony. Due to Deanery Wide Confirmations, more information will be given as soon as a final date is confirmed.
11. Celebration of the Sacrament of Confirmation - The day has arrived!

COST

The Confirmation program is paid for by your High School Religious Education fees. This covers food and supplies for the four Renewal days.


ATTENDANCE

Candidates are expected to attend all events. In the case of an extreme emergency (i.e.: hospitalization, death in family, etc.) which requires an absence, a suitable means of make-up work will be determined. Any teen dismissed during a meeting for disciplinary matters will be considered absent for the entire day.


This page was last modified on February 15, 2008


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